so someone told me I'm childish because I don't believe you have to be married to have kids. I mean I'll be married…

I'm not married, I don't think it's childish. if you're in love & plan on being together for a very long time & want to & plan on getting married i think it's alright.

yea any baby is a blessing. many people make mistakes and love that baby and take great care of that baby. but I don't judge anyone @alegria10

I will marry my man because I want to marry him not because we have a baby together. That's no reason to be married. I think that is smarter to just be in love and be there for each other until the time is right.. Anything can happen! Why can't the whole world be judgement free?

exactly... that was my point just cuz you're married doesn't mean you'll stay married @kaity0117

And when I get married I know divorce isn't going to be an option for me. It's make it or nothing. So the person has to be right... I think a lot people get married with a divorce back up plan... I like the old fashioned way of if its broken fix it not if its broken throw it away and get a new one! And I am not trying to be rude to anyone who has been married multiple times... But my parents had... Still have a nasty divorce going on. I know I never want that. @sexii_diiva

yea true... people should only get married once... no marriage will be perfect. when my bf -& I went to talk to preist he was saying his marriage had more downs then ups but he has a great life and couldn't have done it without her. he didn't believe in divorce. because he was married once before her @kaity0117

Yeah! If things get hard you talk and do absolutely everything before you walk away. Cause there are times where you need to walk away. But the priest you spoke to is right... Relationships are a lot of work, a lot of talking and a lot of compromise. I love my man but we have a lot of issues we need to sort out. Hopefully before the baby comes! One thing I love about him is that we never go to bed angry at each other, we will stay up all night to work it out and it always ends in a hug. We always apologize too :) he's a keeper @sexii_diiva

@kaity0117 well that's good.. I've always loved that saying don't go to sleep mad...