Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
i finally let him do it I finally let DF throw away my foundations. He says I look better without it. He said he hates seeing me cover my face with make up when I can just wear mascara and eyeliner. He says it makes me look fake and he said he's not saying it to be mean, hes saying it because he cares. Im glad he's real with me. He says I have natural beauty. He says he doesn't like it when I dye my hair or wear make up because he loves my natural beauty. I know some girls feel as though that they need make up but they don't. Make up to me is just to do it for fun and sometimes when I feel insecure. Hes the only man that has made me feel beautiful without my hair straightened, without make up on and in my baggy clothes. I can burp in front of him, I can do weird things in front of him, etc. He has taught me so many things in the last (almost) 3 years and im so grateful for him. He taught me how to make pork chops and steaks, how to play some videogames, how to make white rice, how to budget, etc.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Alhy Berry·
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Okay the whole shaving thing ridiculous. Wtf.. And it's only been a little over a week he won't die. That's why there's "self pleasure". Luckily I haven't really lost my libido. But there are days where my hubby is in the mood and I'm not and he is completely understanding. Your husband should understand that your body is going through hectic changes therefore when u say u don't want something it's not really in your control. Do u have pregnancy books cause my hubby read these books when we first found out we were expecting and because of that he knows what I'm going through and understands a lot better. Who knows maybe in a week you'll want him everyday and he will be exhausted lol. Pregnancy is odd like that. Good luck
Alhy Berry·
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And stealing your body pillow is just wrong!!
lilman1115·
hah, I doubt he'd read the book if I got one. I do my reading online mostly like on whattoexpect website and stuff. sometimes he almost seems bothered by everything concerning the baby, and other days he's happy to bring up the topic himself and talk about after baby is here moments. he forgot about the maternity ward tour when I had reminded him daily for a week leading up to it. I had to work that morning, got home and he was already drinking. he told me if he would've known, then he wouldn't have been drinking. Since he had, he couldn't go. I was left to be the only one there without their partner. im also in that crazy nesting mode, but when I ask where im supposed to put the baby's stuff, he says he doesnt know. we just dont have the space. (we do, but it's going to be tight. we are in a 1bd apt. 2 adults, 3 lizards in two very large tanks, and "his desk") he is insistant on his computer desk, his two lizards in their tank, and our bed belong in the bedroom. that leaves my lizard and his tank on the floor in our living room and all the baby stuff I have so far piled in the corner. it is driving me insane!!
Jessika Knowles 🐼·
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husbands will never fully understand a pregnant women nor will we ever understand a males perspective of the other end. Just try and talk to him let him know how you feel and if you have to blow up at eachother then kiss and make up aftet. what my husband and i had to do because it got to the point i bottled everything up (emotion wise) and so did he. Let him know why you need your body pillow and try to reasonable when he asks stupid questions cause i can gaurentee that will Def happen lol
Jessika Knowles 🐼·
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Boyfriends or finances* thought it in my head forgot to type it lol
lilman1115·
yeah. apparently I am supposed to have reasons when I cry and when I get upset...hormones excuse doesnt really work anymore and I just get made fun of for it. I just try my best day to day with him and deal the best I can.
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I TOTALLY understand what you mean @lilman1115 my husband is the exact same way!!!! He constantly asks for sex every night. It hasn't even been a week yet and when I say no. He's all like why don't you let me love you? I just wanna make love to my wife. Why don't you want me. Blah blah blah. And it makes me feel bad. But I can't help it if I don't want to I don't want to. And he doesn't understand that. So I feel you! All you can do is deal with their whining. Pretty soon they'll be dealing with another little whining and you can tell him that's how you felt. Lol
kidtyme·
it is so rare to get a man who understands things outside of his own bubble. I got really lucky and my bf reads everything I do about baby and sometimes finds stuff for me to read. this is pregnancy number 5 and he was the one who pushed me to take a test. I thought my body was just being wiered again. it is really different to have a guy who gets it. he even just moved our recliner into our room so when my hips are hurting I can sleep in it. I'm not really trying to brag just to illustrate how rare it is. this is his first child. he is 29. my x husband dad to the rest of my kiddos was the self centered all about me guy. he wouldn't even help put together baby furniture and complained about having to carry laundry baskets up and down the stairs for me. so yes ladies I feel your pain.
kidtyme·
I think that they either get it or they don't. try talking to him and make sure to use the words I FEEL a lot.