Sorry for the rant, but it seems this message board is the only sort of communication i have to talk about these things. my fiance keeps stealing my body pillow (my saving grace for a good sleep and a not so painful day with my hip killing me) because he wants me to cuddle with him instead of the pillow. if im lucky I'll wake up later, and he hasnt been laying on top of it, and steal it back. he's been bugging me for sex too after he gets off work, but im apparently expected to shower and shave down there beforehand. (I shower at night, so I dont really find myself to be uncleanly 8 hours later when I've just been laying around the house.) So not only am i being asked for something im not in the mood for since pregnancy has pretty much killed my libido after the first trimester, but I also cant stand the razor burn I get, so the second part certainly isn't happening. (it's also only been a little over a week since we had sex, and he's back to bugging me every day for it) I've tried talking to him about it, but he just sees it as I dont find him attractive anymore. Then that leaves me feeling guilty because it isn't the case at all. Am I just losing my mind thinking that this is kinda unreasonable?