Had another moment again where i felt my daughter might have spd its hard to handle we where in a store and when i told her she couldn’t have the “grow in water” toy because shes to impatient and last time she got upset she couldn’t play with it so she cried insisting it would be sad and nobody would “adopt” it after much time trying to verbally calm her (was super close to ending the tantrum) i lightly grazed her back with my fingers and she had an absolute meltdown and started flailing her arms like i hurt her i managed to calm her but compromising and telling her if she could manage to calm down before we got to checkout she could maybe get some candy with which she tried hard to stop crying but though she stopped making noise the tears kept going like she didn’t have control of them when we got to check out she looked at me and asked if she earned the candy? I told her yes and she was ecstatic and her mood changed drastically. This whole episode has me worried because it wasnt a “normal” tantrum but kinda like she didnt have control over the whole thing??? (Any ideas what she might have or what it could be? #mommywhoneedshelp)