I found out my husband slept with another woman and continued a casual sexting relationship over the next 3 months or so. I had originally found texts on his phone and confronted him. He insisted that they were just friends and the texts seemed innocent. Over that 3 months I was asking him to stop talking to her and he continued to insist they were just friends. I spent the end of my pregnancy crying and stressed that we were going to get a divorce because I could tell something was wrong. I spent weeks after having my baby with post partum depression and anxiety just crying and asking him to work with me to fix things. I asked for him to go to marriage counseling and he said no. He spent so much time convincing me they were just friends and that I was being paranoid. I feel so hurt and angry. Of course now he suddenly feels bad and wants to fix things. I don’t know where to go from here. He supports me fully and I live in a different state away from anyone I know. I don’t know if I want to make things work or not. I could really use some encouragement or good thoughts.