I need good thank you gifts for baby shower hostesses... And go! ☺

I NEED ADVICE PLEASE!!
My fiancé and I were only together 2 months before we got pregnant and I'm, now, 26wks. He proposed when we had our gender reveal and I feel he only did it because we're pregnant. Our relationship isn't like it used to be before we got pregnant. He doesn't seem to understand how tired I am. I'm a tech in an ER and he doesn't seem to understand how much I'm running around the ER ever 12 hr shift and that I just wanna sleep when I get home, on my off days. How do I get him ...