Needing some advice, this Christmas break I'm going to Tennessee to visit family both mine and my husbands family is there, well I'm really anxious about being around my husbands family because other then his nana everyone else Really doesn't like me very much because of things that happened a couple years back , his adoptive parents did horrible things to my husband and his brother and at the time my family stepped in and helped and since then they've always hated and said bad things about me ...