Needing some advice, this Christmas break I'm going to Tennessee to visit family both mine and my husbands family is there, well I'm really anxious about being around my husbands family because other then his nana everyone else Really doesn't like me very much because of things that happened a couple years back , his adoptive parents did horrible things to my husband and his brother and at the time my family stepped in and helped and since then they've always hated and said bad things about me and my family. But before I keep rambling as of right now with most of them my husband has forgiven them but I guess you could say I haven't and I'm very uncomfortable bringing my daughter around them I get anxious and irritated just thinking about it, I'm trying to compromise but my grandmother is essentially dying she has very bad heart problems and since I didn't get to see her thanksgiving I want me and Eva to spend as much time with her as possible but still try to compromise with my husband.... sorry for such a long post..