So I'm having a really hard time right now. My dad collapsed at work last Tuesday and has been in a coma ever since. They did an EEG today and we found out that he has no brain activity other than a little bit in his brain stem. My mom, brother, and I will have to make a decision next week on what we want to do. As much as I don't want to see my dad like this and I know he wouldn't want to live like this for years, I'm not sure I'm ready to say "go ahead and turn the ventilator off." My dad is my best friend and I'm just not ready to let him go. I want to hold onto hope that he will one day pull thru this and be able to meet his grandson. I only have 2 months left. I just keep asking why him? Why now?