Never marry a man that whines about not being able to play the game 24/7.
Marry the man who doesn’t still need to grow up.
The one who understands that partnership and parenthood are more important than a game.
And sure, he can still play sometimes.
Everyone deserves hobbies.
But if he’s spending more hours with a headset on than he is with you and the kids?
That’s not balance, that’s a problem.
Choose the man who puts the controller down when you need him.
Who trades hours online for hours being present.
Who doesn’t act irritated when life gets loud, messy, or inconvenient… because he actually wants to be part of it.
A real man doesn’t compete with his responsibilities.
He handles them.
He shows up for them.
He chooses them.
Never settle for a boy who throws fits over a game.
Choose the man who chooses you, and the family you’re building.
©️Caty Sanders