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jays.mom.
JWDx4 Momma🦈🦖🦄🧚‍♀️·Мама четверых детей
Am I the asshole here?
Backstory..

I packed up all my baby girl things to donate to a mom in need, I make a post on facebook and I get a message almost immediately. I’ve given stuff to this girl previously and was happy that I was able to help her again. I made arrangements and was willing to go out of my way to give her the stuff. She stood me up, not once but twice. I gave her the benefit of the doubt considering she just had a baby about a month ago. I messaged her again. She says that now she’s dealing with a bad eye infection this was two weeks ago. I tell her that’s fine let me know when you’re free. Never heard back from her. Fast-forward to this morning, she messages me & asked me if I will bring her the stuff this morning free of charge still.
So I had mad a post I put the stuff on Facebook marketplace so that way I could at least try to get 50 bucks for the stuff, I get a hit immediately and make plans to meet up with someone this afternoon to get the stuff from me.

What do I do?? I’ve been holding the stuff for almost a month and she has just blown me off every single time. Am I the a hole if I go and sell it instead of giving it to her, she won’t even meet up with me and wants me to take it to her she lives 30 miles away from me 🥴 I feel like I was already being nice by giving it to her for free and also going out of my way to meet up with her the last three times and she’s blown me off
19.07.2025

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girlmom02
Lacey Davis·Мама троих детей
Sell them ! This is why I always put first come first serve on my post when I post on marketplace. I have dealt with this a few times I just ignore it move on because it's their fault for not continuously trying or at least coming to get the stuff move on girl she has shown multiple times she is not that interested in the stuff so give it to someone who really is in need. 🤍
20.07.2025 Нравится Ответить
ekko
The EK 💋·Мама двоих (4 года, 8 лет)
Sell it. She had a long time and several chances to get the stuff.
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dr.grey
Sell it
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humblewarriormama
Mama Coco·Мама троих детей
I’ve held stuff for people for over a month before but I’d sell it as soon as I was asked to drop it off! Especially 30 miles away! No thank you. You’re not Prime Delivery!!
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mybabybear
mybabybear ·Мама сына (11 лет)
I block people who stood me up on those posts. It’s so annoying. She could’ve reached out.
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scream.queen
scream.queen·Мама подростков
Agree fully with everyone else. Sell them. She's had multiple chances.
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damnitred
🧡🤍OG Red🤍🧡·Мама подростков
I’d sell them. She had more than enough time to get them. Not the asshole, she sounds entitled. Fuck her.
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jays.mom.
JWDx4 Momma🦈🦖🦄🧚‍♀️·Мама четверых детей
So entitled. She had the nerve to react to the post with the wow reaction on Facebook when I said that they were sold already… like girl you had ample time, miss me with the bullshit babe 😂
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sourpatchkids
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·Мама двоих (2 года, 8 лет)
Even if she has a bad eye infection couldn’t she just have told you to put the stuff by her door…? I’ve done that so many times for People… better yet put a damn eye patch on. Dumbest excuse
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jays.mom.
JWDx4 Momma🦈🦖🦄🧚‍♀️·Мама четверых детей
That wasn’t even the only excuse, she tried to tell me that she had a newborn and that she didn’t wanna travel with the baby long distance, I completely understand but this isn’t her first baby. This is her third or her fourth, so she’s in the same boat as me. I have a little baby I don’t wanna travel long distances… like wtf. And I’m sorry an eye infection does not take almost a month to get over.
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sourpatchkids
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·Мама двоих (2 года, 8 лет)
@jays.mom., oh I didn’t realized she lived further out. I hate having to take Jason out anywhere that’s more than 40 mins away.
No it doesn’t… like I said wear an eyepatch if you need it that bad or just come straight forward to you about it 😑
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salazar593
🥀⛥̷A̶n̵g̵i̴e̷⛥̴🍉·Мама троих детей
Get that money.
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evildrporkchop.
Pork Chop ·Мама четверых детей
Sell them.
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whereswaldo
Where’s Waldo·Мама двоих (12 лет, 16 лет)
Sell 👏 those 👏 clothes 👏. You gave the original person more than ample opportunity and it’s free. You’re not a delivery person. Don’t even feel slightly guilty. They’re taking advantage of you. Sell it.
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jays.mom.
JWDx4 Momma🦈🦖🦄🧚‍♀️·Мама четверых детей
That’s one of the most shittiest things is when you try to do something nice for somebody and then they take full advantage of you and then keep putting their hand out and wanting more and more and more.
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whereswaldo
Where’s Waldo·Мама двоих (12 лет, 16 лет)
@jays.mom., yep you’ve been way more than gracious. They had 3 chances. Which is 2 more than I would have given. If someone is willing to pay take them up on it. You went way out of your way to try to pay it forward.
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jays.mom.
JWDx4 Momma🦈🦖🦄🧚‍♀️·Мама четверых детей
@whereswaldo, especially if you’re supposedly in need like you say that you are that would be one of the first things that I do is go and pick up the things that my baby needs. I had a guy hit me up and he’s a director of a Special Olympics team and has a little baby who could use this stuff. Works out better
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