У сына украли обед: как помочь и не осуждать?
My son texted me today at his lunch time and said someone stole his lunch. He was upset and wanted to come home. He said he told the teacher but they couldn't do anything about it. He hadn't had anything to eat and just wanted to leave. At first I was upset and ready to react but I thought about it and now it makes me sad. What if this student is facing food insecurity at home and these are the only meals he/she eats at school? If a child has to take food I feel like they are just trying to survive. I'm waiting in my son to text me back because now I want to make sure the child has food and I want to make sure they don't have to take anything to be full. 😢 And yes Im letting him come home. Clearly something is bothering him and he's hangry.
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he told me that he was at the lunch table and he and another student were watching something on the chrome book. He said when he went to eat his food it was gone and his friend beside him was finishing off the last of whatever he had. He said he told him he didn't have breakfast and was really hungry so he forgave him. He said the first teacher he told told him to tell the other teacher and he did, the cafeteria line had its doors closed so they told him they couldn't do anything. I got him something to eat.
Strange. Usually in our school here they would offer the extra meal so that kids do not go without. They do not let kids starve and wait it out until they get home. The school will offer the child a meal for free. I cannot believe the difference in states. Also the school lunches are free to everyone no matter the incomes.
Keep us posted. My mom was a career teacher and the neglect she saw or even just straight up the parents are struggling and they are going without as well is heart breaking.
From what I have read on here I feel like not every state follows similar guidelines and some school related posts on here are worrisome for sure. Our school is supportive of many challenges and would never allow a child to go hungry support hate and will address bullying etc. I hope the parents get help in reporting the source.
@icebergahead I totally agree. If that child is hungry, how are they going to learn? It should be an obligation, it's cruel to let them go without.
@icebergahead, I should also add that my son is in a behavioral contained class. My son is autistic but very high functioning. While all the kids in his class has some form of a diagnosis, majority do have behavioral issues. unfortunately being in a contained class you will experience certain behaviors. I'm not sure if this was a behavioral thing, a hungry issue etc. My sister was in close distance to my son's school so she picked him up for me and I got him chick fila so he was content. I did ask him if he thinks this could be an issue where the student is going without food and maybe needs a little extra snacks or resources and he said no, he said the friend told him he didn't have breakfast and was hungry. He said he forgave him. I generally don't have issues with his school, he has flourished in his school this year to the point he is going into general classes for 7th grade. I will be brining the issue up to the teacher so if there's a next time for any student it's handled more appropriately.
That is a tough one. I wouldn’t want the kid to be starving either but I don’t understand why the teacher couldn’t look into it either.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
Am I a bitch? My husband wanted to go to lunch with a girl who's a friend but her boyfriend wouldn't be there. I threw a fit and got upset and he didn't go, should I have let him?
So its really over between me n him. Im angry n hurt. He block me from reaching out to him. Im so upset. So i want him to be punish for hurting me. What should i do? I have naked pics of him i want to put out. I want to call his job get him fired. Im so hurt. This is his first child n he dont even want to be here for the birth. 4 damn yrs n it come to this. What should i do? I want Revenge
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My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wro...
This is unbelievable we sent our kids to these schools thinking they safe yet if this was us and the child told the teacher we didn't feed them all day that's child neglect !!!! I would be very upset my child was hungry if I where you id send my child with snack in thier bag at all times for emergacy and I won't care if I get a call they eating in class I'll tell them teachers my kid will eat and they need better school system for food!!!