Как справиться с раздражительностью и усталостью мамы?

Soooo I am new to this group and I thought I would download this app just get some advice on some things I have 1 daughter she is 3 years old she will be 4 in December . & I need some help mentally I’m dealing with a lot and I just don’t know what else to do . So I have been dealing with mood swings for a while now but not it seems like it’s been getting out of hand . I become so irritated by every little thing and I just want to be left alone & I sometimes act irratable with my daughter . Now she is a VERY VERY VERY active 3 year old she is always getting into stuff , she constantly whines & she is SUPPERRR CLINGLY! She always wants to be sitting on top of me I could be eating , drinking or just doing anything she wants to sit in my lap or just put her fingers all in my face or pull my hair or anything touching me and while it’s fine but when I’m already stressed out from work come home then have to clean and cook and tend to her it gets over whelming ! And when I just need a moment to my self she start screaming crying WHINNING because she wants to be right up under me I can’t even use the bathroom now I love my daughter to death more than anything in this world I just need to know how to deal with those emotions and just be the best mom I can be to her 🙏🏽🙏🏽😔😔 #myfirstpost

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jahmyac8

Yesss that’s exactly what I needed to hear ! Thank you Soo much 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

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llamapantaloons
Llama Pantaloons·Мама сына (2 года)

Yeah, my 2 year old is the same exact way. It can be exhausting at times. What helps me is my husband taking him outside or upstairs to play for an hour after he gets home so I can have some time to myself if that’s an option for you.

I also need to do a lot of deep breathing at times just to calm myself down. It helps at time. Same with noise cancelling headphones and removing myself from the room for a quick minute to collect myself.

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jahmyac8

Noo I haven’t tried that I may have to look into that I mean this is my only child so maybe it’s still some getting used. That was the whole point for me downloading this app so that way I can reach out an get advice from other moms as well. So thank you

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whereswaldo
Where’s Waldo·Мама двоих (12 лет, 15 лет)

You’re not going to like this but you described a typical toddler. Being touched out is normal because toddlers are a lot. They test every boundary 100 times before they get it. Have you tried busy bins they only get when you absolutely can’t take it anymore? Like a special treat for them (sensory bins like colored rice and toys to dig and build in). But unfortunately you’ll just have to wait for this stage to pass. If you’re feeling down and out I also recommend talking to a doctor. You definitely don’t want to be pushed to snapping point.

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whereswaldo
Where’s Waldo·Мама двоих (12 лет, 15 лет)

As for the bathroom. Just start leaving the door open. My kids are almost grown and still come in to talk to me. Like DUDE.

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