Как устала, когда меня перебивают! Дети и муж не слушают, что делать? Уйти от них? Советы?

Question

My biggest upset is when people talk over me and I have to wait to talk or yell over them to be heard…. I’m so sick of being talked over and patronized and treated like I’m so small. Mostly my kids, which I’ve tried correcting so much in the past, to no avail. Now my husband is doing it too…… I actually pulled out our suitcases tonight. Didn’t put anything in them, but it got my kids to sit still and quiet long enough to listen. Hopefully this time they heard because I’m so disrespected that it makes me feel so small and sad. I don’t know how much longer I can keep this up. Only place I could go to is my mom’s in another state, but she downplays everything.

I feel so done.

So Royal · Answer

I hope things get better. I'm happy there's acknowledgement and a plan to make an effort in the future.

Elizabeth Hebert · Answer

We had a long talk after he put the boys to bed. They apologized profusely. We realized that there has been a huge lapse in communication between us and that he hasn’t been as present as he could be. It will be worked on as well. Here’s hoping things get better. Otherwise I’ll be taking a trip by myself for a time