Куда развеять прах дедушки? Шторм помешал, а с мамой они не ладили - что делать с прахом?

My grandfather passed away a few weeks ago. He was cremated and I have his ashes. I was reading some notes he left and it said he wants his ashes spread and he didn’t care the location. My sister and I were going to do that today but we have storms. Anyways, my moms ashes are on the shelf I have in memory of her. My mom couldn’t stand my grandfather so I didn’t want to put his ashes on her shelf.. hers the messages with my sister 😂😭 Idk why it’s so funny to me.