Как начать развод через медиацию? Первые шаги для мам

So get this s*** I was just talking to my husband about the divorce again as usual and he still doesn't want to get divorced and I do and he goes I understand you're nearing menopause and that's why you hate me right now lol. If I'm nearing menopause that's the smoothest ride to menopause I ever would think any woman had lol. I'm like I'm only 45 dude I'm not anywhere near menopause and I had my period late in life. He's like that's why you hate everything right now, I understand that. Why do men always go to that for everything just cuz I want to get a divorce he thinks I'm going through menopause that's a joke and a half lol. Damn dude I can't believe he's resorting to that

You should call the family clerk of court in the county you are in and they should be able to tell you exactly what the first step is