Should I Stay or Leave? Understanding Divorce and Trauma Bonds

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Don’t know if I want this divorce or not. Or if this is just the trauma bond 😭 😭

🌸GoodVibeTribe🌸 · Answer

Thinking of you, babe. I know this is extremely hard! Your feelings are valid & it’s normal to question if you’re making the right decision. Just remind yourself of WHY you started to this journey & that you deserve to feel valued, appreciated, loved & safe. Be strong 🫶🏼

Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty · Answer

I love you Jess. You deserve the world. It'll be greater later. You already know how I feel about the douchbag who DOES NOT deserve you. Text me anytime.

Mrs.stkrdknmibalz · Answer

U can always call me 💕💕💕

JenX · Answer

Awwwww, sweetie. Sending love.

Stephanie · Answer

Someone close to me is going through this right now. I feel like this decision was the hardest for her. If you were happy, divorce wouldn't even be a question. You deserve to be the best & happiest version of yourself!

This is what I sent her... If You know you are leaving for the right reasons, don't keep questioning it. If it can't be fixed, it's time to let it go and be happy, enjoy your life and your kids lives.

In my state you have to be separated for a year, it's been a few months.
 I wish I could just hug you guys, tell you, you are worth more & you deserve to be happy!

jessica · Answer

That makes total sense. 😭 thank you.

Stephanie · Answer

@rybugg413 the days you have your babies, make the most of it. The days you are alone, find yourself and your happiness.

Monsters 💀 · Answer

Ohhhh no baby girl. I was unaware you was going through this. Big hugs

M_🖤 · Answer

There is always going be questions in your mind if you’re doing the right thing, but just think about why you made the choice to get a divorce in the first place, do you still feel the way you did then?, has the person changed at all?. Just know whatever you do decide you deserve to be happy and loved 🩷

jessica · Answer

He ‘seemed’ to try to change but that didn’t last long. I think it’s the weekends alone that makes me fall in a dark hole. I miss the kids so much.

M_🖤 · Answer

@rybugg413, when me and my husband separated for a bit when L was little the weekends were the hardest, I became super depressed so  I understand that, maybe try to find things you can do for yourself things you haven’t be able to do?, that helped me a lot.

Heather · Answer

Definitely think of everything. It’s going to be hard no matter what. Big hugs ❤️

jessica · Answer

It sucks so bad.

Heather · Answer

@rybugg413, how long have you been separated  now?

jessica · Answer

@supermomof4, since the end of January

Samantha · Answer

Aw hun I’m sorry ik how that is ( it’s sam(taytay)

jessica · Answer

It’s okay 😭

Should I Stay or Leave? Understanding Divorce and Trauma Bonds

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