Опека над ребёнком
Tonight I was given temporary custody of my sisters little sister. Her dad was charged with domestic violence against her and was arrested. Tonight was really heartbreaking because at first he told cps to put her in foster care and that he didn’t want her to go to any of us. She was walking over to the cps workers car and I asked the police could I talk to him so they rolled the car window down and let me. After I begged him and broke down crying he finally agreed to let me have her. He signed the papers and CPS came over to approve of my place. I had to sign papers too. I feel so sad for her because he told her that she was never allowed back in his house and made her give him her house key. He’s mad that she told us about the abuse. He literally punched her in her face tonight and her face is swollen and has marks all on it. This has been going on for a while. He’s an alcoholic and beats on her. She asked me tonight was this all her fault because she told us and I told her no, she’s a child and doesn’t deserve anyone to abuse her and that she did the right thing. Any time someone does something they shouldn’t do to you, you tell us so we can protect you. The cps lady said we will have court within the next 30 days and it will take a while for their investigation and she told me if I wanted to apply for full custody I should do that now. I asked my sister what she wants to do, since that’s her sister she can apply but I will if she thinks it’s best I do it. We already are the ones who provide for her. She gets food, clothes, basic needs from us. When it’s issues at school my sister and I handle them. I go to parent student stuff with her. I have to go to her school tomorrow to bring my papers from cps to make sure he doesn’t try to have contact with her or get her from school when he gets out of jail if they let him bond out. I need to figure out getting her her own bed and stuff. Right now she’s in my bed for the night. I just kept telling him thank you for signing the papers because even the cps worker said once she’s in foster care it’s hard to get her back. I hate how selfish people can be.
M_🖤·
This breaks my heart, but I am so glad he decided to sign her over to you and she is safe. ♥️
DragonTrainer1·
I'm so sorry she is going through this
JenX·
This is beyond heartbreaking. Alcoholics are the most manipulative petty people, I am so grateful he got out of his own way and let you have her. My heart goes out to all of you for all the healing she has to go through.
deleteduser·
You all are very lucky to have each other. I’m happy she’s in a safe, loving home now. Sending you all good vibes 💗💗💗💗
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·
I’m so happy she has you and your sister to help her through this. It’s extremely sad how some parents can be so cruel.
Sistersmainpiece·
Thank you guys. I couldn’t sleep last night because I was thinking about how fucked up he is to say and do what he’s done. I hate that this is her situation and it really makes me so sad but I told her last night we love her and she’s safe and my job is to protect her and take care of her. She knows I’m a safe place and I’ve always tried to be that for her
Retta Rodriguez·
Многодетная мама (8 детей), беременна
🫂 Thank God he changed his mind and she has yall to see about her, just heartbreaking yess let her know non of it is her fault and it was the right thing for her to tell because you never know it could have gotten worse. Poor baby girl im sorry yall are going through this.
Sandra ·
This is so heartbreaking!!! I am glad she has you and her sister and that she has a safe home with you♥️