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Jessica Sanchez
jessicasanchez
Jessica Sanchez

Свадебные проблемы

Girls I need to vent kus pregnancy has my hormones everywhere rn. I swear it feels like my sister in law is throwing it in my face that she’s getting married. I’m just commonly law married with my baby daddy. She came over the other day & asked if my daughter had a dark green dress for the wedding. I told her no but I’ll find one. Then she was telling me how she was supposed to get married on my birthday but changed it to the day before kus our mother in law paid for it. I was like ok but why this week tho? But whatever. Then she starts saying that her dad is gonna walk our mother in law down the aisle & our stepfather in law is gonna walk her mom down the aisle but since they changed it last minute she said MY HUSBAND is the back up to walk her mom down the aisle. Like I know it sounds like I’m a bad person rn but like I said my hormones are crazy rn. My husband tried to get out of it but she said he has to do it. She has other brothers too. Anyways, last night I bought my daughter a dress off Amazon & five minutes later she texts me “does she have a maroon dress instead?” So I had to cancel the order & overdraft my account more so I could get her a maroon dress. I had this red dress I wanted to wear and she was like “that means you slept with the groom” so my husband bought me a dress in the color blue this morning so I could try it out. She’s wearing a black wedding dress so I can’t wear black. I’m just so annoyed with the wedding this weekend. Yeah I know I’m a horrible person for making this post. To be fair we didn’t even know our daughter was gonna be a flower girl until Sunday & finding her size is so hard kus she’s chunky.
27.06.2023

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mujerstillregal
mujerstillregal
You don't sound like a horrible person, and it doesn't seem like she's throwing her wedding in your face, but she does sound like bridezilla and you are too accommodating. You shouldn't put yourself in debt for someone else's wedding, especially when they can't get it together, you bought a green dress, you should have just let your daughter wear it, or send it back and let your daughter wear something she already has, or let her buy it. You shouldn't have overdrawn your account to satisfy her.

Stop buying things for her wedding, especially with last minute changes, you don't have the money, it's ok. She won't be helping you pay off the bills when it's all said and done. On the other hand, do YOU want to be legally married?
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bodybycheetos
bodybycheetos
Weddings a stressful af and this one sounds super disorganized and not really planned well. But it’s normal to want your family in your wedding party. Wear what you feel good in, as long as it’s respectful. If she wanted you in something specific, she should’ve bought it or at least planned it out in advance. Im sure it will be beautiful either way. Sorry your feelings are hurt.
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ekko
ekko
Weddings are stressful for everyone. It doesn’t sound like she’s throwing it in your face. Just sounds like she’s a disorganized mess lol. Try to enjoy the celebration. It will be so precious to watch your daughter be the flower girl.
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