Ревность в соцсетях: что делать?
Opinions please-
How do you feel about your SO following and liking other women's pics on social media? Sexy pics and all (women with OFs).
It has made me feel disrespected, sad, angry, insecure (obviously).
Are my feeling valid or am I overreacting and need to not care what he does on social media regarding other women?
Sorry, I needed a safe space to ask this away from SO and other males.
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I can’t control who he follows and who follows him, but I wouldn’t like it if he was liking sexy pics.
What’s OFs?
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ··
@alicia0987 oh no, you are gonna drive yourself mad doing stuff like following them too and checking to see who he follows and likes etc. It seems more like a self esteem issue that you may have right now and it's upsetting you what he's doing. Not saying he's right esp if you told him you don't like it. But you've gotta pick and choose your battles. Do what you gotta do to make you feel confident again. As long as he isn't trying to text , call, pay for, meet up with these women ... I wouldn't get myself stressed out or depressed about it. And if it continues to bother you THAT much and he still does it...give him the boot 🤷🏾♀️
Alicia··
Мама дочки (7 лет)
thank you so much! 😊
Alicia··
Мама дочки (7 лет)
thank you so much! 😊
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·
Your feelings are always valid but I wouldn't drive myself crazy over it. It's just pics at the end of the day. Maybe just tell him how it makes you feel? Or be like knock it off lol. My husband loves Rhianna but it doesn't bother me if he would like her pics x-rated or not.
Side note: as long as your husband doesnt have an OFs account to look at pics/videos. Id be piss he's paying to look at naked women.
Alicia··
Мама дочки (7 лет)
This is how I'm trying to look at it. I know he isn't paying any OF, and that is super valid point and I need to try to focus on that more.
deleteduser·
I’d be mad, but probably wouldn’t say shit. I’m the type to keep a collection of shit in my brain and then use the info like nukes when necessary. Not healthy but sometimes I get over it.
Alicia··
Мама дочки (7 лет)
Same! 😬 I usually push it back in my brain but then something triggers me and I go crazy again. I hate when I have my crazy moments 😒
Icebergahead·
Мама сына (11 лет)
Depends on your boundaries. This is a red flag for many.
Alicia··
Мама дочки (7 лет)
Well unfortunately it has been a boundary that has NEVER been respected as in how dare I ask of this type of response. Or I'll get the "I can follow them" and my stupid response is "it's fine, no use" because I don't want you to unfollow because I asked/told you to amd will make me feel like I'm a b**** but because you care about my mental health. Does that make sense?
Icebergahead··
Мама сына (11 лет)
sounds like he does not give a hoot about his partner and relationship. If that is the case. You deserve to have your boundaries heard and respected.
Red flags