Газлайтинг и обман: что делать, если отец ребенка передумал быть папой после 6 месяцев?
I feel gas lit and tricked…
The father of the baby I’m pregnant with said he told me he never wanted to be a dad and went on about how he’s scared and used so many excuses. .. he stayed with me up until I hit 6 months.. he told me before I got pregnant that he wanted kids with me and even tho we didn’t plan correctly and it’s stressful I don’t see how he could switch up completely… I sent him screenshots of his own words and he said I felt like that at the time…. So now… it’s just me being abandoned… he’s gone back and forth saying I’m the only one for him and he wants to be there for us but he flat out said to my face yesterday I don’t want to be a family or a dad… he is figuring out his meaning …. Idk what to take from this but that I was lied to and manipulated
Michiko M·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Girl... I mean you were tricked and gaslit in a way. What he did was NOT RIGHT, but you just can't believe all the bullshit from men. Never judge someone by their words as they can always lie, judge them by their ACTIONS. I hope your situation gets better; most men only want what is inbetween the legs so they will sweet talk you and say all the bullshit to get it. Once something important or some responsibility pops up they outta there. This is the main reason why I never trusted by fiancee words until I saw him move mountains for my wellbeing. JUDGE BY ACTIONS, MORALS; NOT WORDS. I PRAY FOR YOU AND YOUR BABIES GIRL.