Отец: состояние ухудшается, рак распространяется, что делать?
Just got an update on Dad. The tubes they put in his chest aren’t helping like they thought they would. They can’t do treatments because of the fluid so the cancer is spreading. He can’t eat and can barely talk because he’s so weak and short of breath. I’m going to see him tomorrow, but it’s up in the air how much longer he has.
JenX·
Oh, dear heart, I am so sorry. I am so sorry for everything you are going through, that your boys have to go through it, and for your dad's rapid decline. It's so unfair. And he knows exactly what each stage brings and that's even crueler. I lost my dad within 6 months of diagnosis, and it was 6 months of hell. My heart really goes out to all of you.
Elizabeth Hebert··
He was diagnosed in November, so not that long ago. It’s crazy how he went from having a stomachache and working 16 hour days to this in such a short time. We were hoping to having the boys’ Hebrew namings in the Spring so he could be there, since he probably wouldn’t be alive for J’s bar mitzvah in 7 years. Looks like we’ll have to do it sooner. We’re giving my youngest his dad’s Hebrew names since he passed when my dad was 16
JenX··
I will be thinking of you as you visit your dad today. I know how it is to be the daughter with the medical training and have a frank discussion about the situation. It's a heavy day. One gift I was given after my dad passed was his widow telling me, "I could always tell when I got home from work if he had talked to you that day. His spirits were higher, he had steps and a plan you two had worked out, and it always made him feel better." That was worth more than my weight in gold to me. <3 I am sure you are such a comfort to him.
Alaina·
Мама троих детей
Oh no I’m so sorry. I hope everything makes a turn for him and he heals quickly!
💙 Boy Mom 💙·
I'm so sorry pray they can figure everything out and u spend as much time as u need with him before God takes him and make sure ur kids see him
Elizabeth Hebert··
Thankfully they saw him at his home before he was hospitalized on the 13th. I’m putting a call into J’s therapist tomorrow to see if it would be harmful for them to see him in the hospital before he passes. Sometimes they give special permission for kids under 12 to visit at end of life
💙 Boy Mom 💙··
I pray he gets to see there grandpa before he Go's to be with God
Heather·
I'm so sorry to hear this😭 my thoughts and prayers are with you and your dad❤️