Question. Do you cut up your partner’s meat before serving him his plate? Do you serve him his plate? Apparently I’m “spoiling” my husband because I cut up his steak & I make his plate lol, I don’t really care though I like doing it 😂🤷🏻♀️
I dont cut his meat, but I make his plates and serve him. Its not considered bad here. I grew up watching my mom, my aunts, my grandma and ect doing it too.
I grew up watching my family do the opposite so it’s considered lazy to them. I don’t see a problem!
I see. Yeah you do you girl! I absolutely love doing it. I feel like I'm showing appreciation for him. My husband had the same look as your family, he used to look at me like I was crazy and say "your not my maid, your my wife" but 16 years later, he says nothing now. 😂
No and my husband prefers me to get my plate before him even no matter how much I argue. He says I cooked it so I deserve it.
I don’t cut up his meat but I’ll give him his plate first, I mean my mom thinks I am too much cause I’ll make his cup of coffee or grab his clothes for him for work. 😂
I don’t know he works hard and he does kind things for me in return, I don’t know why it bothers people so much 😂🤷🏻♀️
Nope no way. He makes his own plate and most days makes his own dinner. I love my husband and yes he works outside the home but I homeschool and take care of the house all he does is goes to his office job
No. I cook it all and clean it up. I cut up food for the people who can't cut up their food.
Husband and I will occasionally plate for the other, but it’s not a given. Depends on who cooks, what we’re having and how many dishes we want to clean. I do not cut up his food, he’s not a toddler.
I mean I cut my kids food but not my husbands 😅 he’s a big boy he can do it lmaooo
Not on purpose, but sometimes, if I'm cutting up steak or chicken for our son, I'll just cut everyone's meat. He can cut his own damn meat.
If he cooks, he makes all the plates & serves & cuts all our meats up.
If I cook, I make the plates, serve, & cut everyone’s meat up. 🤷🏻♀️
Never put much thought into it. I’ll ask if he wants his cut or not though, sometimes he doesn’t.
It depends. Sometimes I make his plate sometimes he makes mine. 🤷
I don't cut up his steak tho.
Nope. I sometimes don’t even make him a plate. I grew up where my parents got their own stuff and my MIL was weirded out I wouldn’t make her son a plate 🤣 but I honestly didn’t even know that was a thing until she said something.
If I make a plate it’s cause I don’t want him making a mess or sometimes I’ll just be nice.
No ma'am I will not cut up his food lol but I do plate it and give it to him always or pack it for his work lunch. I always eat last regardless. Sometimes I wait til the babies are in bed so I can eat in peace without lil toddler fingers begging 😂
Yep I do the same thing when it comes to my food lol I rather wait until they’re in bed!
Nope, but if I'm making my husband a snack or something just for him I'll plate it, but he cuts his food himself. Other than that he deals with it because his food can't touch. 🙄
No I will not cut up his meat and I don't serve the plates in any particular order either...I usually nibble as I'm plating or just save mine for last so I can eat uninterrupted
I don't cut his food but I do plate all the food because I don't want people in my kitchen when I am cooking.
If we’re having steak then yes I cut it up. I always make his plate and serve him first too
I don’t care 😂😂 he built me a whole ass house with his two hands I’ll cut his steak the rest of my life 😂😂😂
Nope. If he wants meat, he can deal with it himself (I dont eat it). 😂
I used to make his lunch for him, but he started getting cranky whenever I asked him what he wanted, so I quit. I’m salty like that.
I plate and serve, I have a child also so they both get served together. But no I don't cut his food, especially steak because the bigger the chunk of cow the better for him 🤣
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No and my husband prefers me to get my plate before him even no matter how much I argue. He says I cooked it so I deserve it.