Когда учитель говорит о поведении ребёнка?
PSA: When your child’s teacher contacts you about their behavior, that is not a personal attack on your child or on your parenting.
I often see people get super defensive, then start blaming the teacher and sometimes even start calling them names (I’ve seen it on here). They are a partner in your child’s education and speaking to you about your child’s behavior IS THEIR JOB. Kids behave differently at school — it’s a different setting with far different expectations.
And notice how I said partner. That means that educating your child and working with them on school behaviors isn’t only their job. You play a part, too.
That is all.
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Мама троих детей
Liam’s kindergarten teacher really laid out the guidelines to help prepare our children for school so I wholeheartedly agree with you
Mamabirdddd··
Same here. And no wavering on her expectations. She told us that at orientation. She has stuck to it too.
Maya 🐝·
I agree! My son’s teacher said he was having behavior problems and I popped up at the school to see what he was doing. We should be making things easier not harder.
The EK 💋··
This! We need to be working as a team. The teacher and the parents have the same goal in mind for the kid - to have them be successful!
JWDx4 Momma🦈🦖🦄🧚♀️·
You couldn’t have said this better. I have to meet with my sons team and the principal the day we get back from fall break because of the way his behavior has been this year. I could never imagine calling my sons teacher any names or anybody that takes care of my son when he is in there care for 7 hours a day. That’s absurd!
Mamabirdddd··
@ekko, um they are literally hiring anyone here to be subs as long as they can pass a bg check and drug test. Someone with zero experience or training.
The EK 💋··
Same here. Scary, huh? Now imagine that person is your child’s teacher and in charge of them learning how to read.
Mamabirdddd··
it’s terrifying. I recently had a conference with W’s teacher and she explained how absurd it has been this year. One sub went completely off the lesson plan and a lot of the kids got upset.
So Royal·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I actually appreciate when teachers reach out to me about my child's behavior. I want my child to have the best experience possible, and get the most out of their time at school, any way that I can help with that I'm happy for the chance to be included.
Stephany·
🙌🏽👏🏽 love this!!!!
Heather w·
Мама троих детей
Yesss 🙌🏻