Как справиться с раздражением от детей: советы мамы
I feel so bad when I get overwhelmed with the girls. It’s not their fault but sometime with both of them talking at me and trying to grab my attention and touching me just is to much. I don’t yell or anything I just can hear the irritation in my voice and feel my body vibrating so I have to separate myself and take a moment.
JenX·
I flat out tell my family I am getting overstimulated and I need time. I think it's okay to let them know you're a human being and it is a lot when everyone needs something or is talking to you at the same time for hours on end. It can be incredibly overwhelming!
kesha hicks··
I think I just get super anxious about how they will feel. But I agree with you I absolutely need to just tell them.
Elizabeth Hebert·
My boys know that when I put both my hands up and close my eyes I need a second. I then point to whoever can talk first. It slows it down and they’ve gotten better at not yelling over each other
kesha hicks··
It’s a fight for my attention most of the time then once I get them to calm down and go on at a time they go back and fourth talking each trying to be the last one to talk to me. I can usually redirect them but days like today it’s just to much for my brain to process and I just need to shut down for a moment lol.
mybabybear ·
Мама сына (8 лет)
I also tell my kid that I’m getting frustrated and not to touch me and that I need space. I think it’s a good thing to model explaining our emotions.
Doesn’t always work tho 🥴sometimes he’s still all over me even when I say it.
kesha hicks··
Mine leave out the room and come back 5 min later saying can I tell you something then say nevermind and put their head down and sadly walk out the room.