Acts of service. I would say physical touch but I only like to get fucked multiple times a day. I don’t like kissing, hugging etc so idk if it qualifies.
I read this interesting, particularly offensive if you’re religious as it was created as Christian Literature and not by a professional councilor/therapist, take on this topic about how it justifies the “weaponized incompetence of men” (acts of service) and men “saying women don’t give them enough sex” (physical touch) and now I can’t look at this the same way ever again.
my bestie is a sex therapist and she has these plus a few others! it’s really interesting. Plus, many just say what theirs are in general, but you have giving, receiving, and then they also depend on friend vs significant other
it was posted in a thread, so I may be getting content and comments mixed up in my memory. I just googled criticism of the love languages and this article was the most similar to what I’m remembering:
jenna tess·
giving: gifts / touch
receiving: gifts / acts of service
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ·
Acts of service: clean the damn house and go to work
Gifts: thoughtful gifts and the simple things matter
Physical touch: choke me 😏 .... I'm jk 👀 lol
QT: I need more date nights but I done had so many kids it's hard to get us time 😭
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz··
That’s where my mind went on physical 🤣 but I’m not joking 😅
Ms Jackson If Ya Nasty ··
@sourpatchkid 😂😂😂😏
JenX·
Acts/affirmation
Heather·
Мама сына (10 лет)
Acts of service & quality time
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·
Acts, physical, and words
Luna_bear ·
Mine are definitely acts of service. But my husbands is physical touch 🤮 😂
The EK 💋··
My husband too! It’s exhausting. Stop touching me!!!
Luna_bear ··
seriously!
Icebergahead·
Мама дочки (11 лет)
Touch for sure and act of service, gift.
Sistersmainpiece·
Acts of service. I would say physical touch but I only like to get fucked multiple times a day. I don’t like kissing, hugging etc so idk if it qualifies.
Mama Coco·
I read this interesting, particularly offensive if you’re religious as it was created as Christian Literature and not by a professional councilor/therapist, take on this topic about how it justifies the “weaponized incompetence of men” (acts of service) and men “saying women don’t give them enough sex” (physical touch) and now I can’t look at this the same way ever again.
Before that, I would have also said acts & gifts.
jenna tess··
my bestie is a sex therapist and she has these plus a few others! it’s really interesting. Plus, many just say what theirs are in general, but you have giving, receiving, and then they also depend on friend vs significant other
The EK 💋··
Ooohh interesting. Do you remember where you read the article?
Mama Coco··
it was posted in a thread, so I may be getting content and comments mixed up in my memory. I just googled criticism of the love languages and this article was the most similar to what I’m remembering:
https://medium.com/blunt-therapy/the-bigot-who-wrote-the-5-love-languages-hates-you-e2f65771a1c0
Here’s some other takes:
https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ways-youre-thinking-about-the-love-languages-wrong
https://www.theatlantic.com/family/archive/2019/10/how-the-five-love-languages-gets-misinterpreted/600283/
Meow. ·
Words of affirmation and quality time 😩
Hakuna·
Same as you!
Joy·
Physical touch and words of affirmation!
Where’s Waldo·
Acts of service/words of affirmation
Just Another Spider Riding Aussie 🕷🇦🇺·
Lift heavy shit, give me attention and stop fucking touching me so much! 😂🤣 pretty much sums up ours lol
The EK 💋··
Yessss!