*TRIGGER WARNING- THIS POST CONTAINS CONTENT ABOUT LOST PREGNANCIES*
Sucks that this is my first post in months, I’ve been MIA for awhile due to a lot of life changes.. I know this is a safe space to get advice from you guys that I’ve spoke to often when I was more active on here.
For those who have lost a pregnancy .. How long did you bleed for and how painful was it passing the pregnancy? What can I do with the baby, if burial via a funeral director is not possible at this time? I cant begin to even accept this but I know I need to. I need all the details I can receive at this point.. TIA.
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I am so so sorry for your loss, mama. I just was looking thru my messages on here to try finding everyone I used to talk to on here all the time & checking their page.. I see you’re not really active anymore but this was one of your last posts to make. I’m so sorry, I know how devastating that is. I’m always here if you need to talk, hopefully you see this 💜
I’m so sorry for your loss! When I had my first. I bled and cramped really bad for 5/6 days. We never knew how far along I was. I wasn’t supposed to be able to get pregnant with meds I was talking. Second one I bled and cramped for 5/6 days again. I was about 6 weeks. I did not look in the toilet for the remains I couldn’t bring myself to do it.
I have a box ready and stuff if I do bring myself to look. My mom is going to set up a little site in her backyard. I feel so numb. I’m just ready to get through this. Nothing has happened yet.
@mamatocam8516xo, I’m so sorry! I totally understand. I bawled my eyes out the first few days all day long. Hid in the bathroom or just layed on the couch. My ex had to stay home with the kids cause I couldn’t get threw it.
That’s a great idea setting something up in the garden for baby. Lean on your family right now. Don’t shut them out.
So so sorry for your loss 💜 in terms of the baby, you could have them cremated. There are tons of orgs that do this for free. Your hospital will definitely have resources for you and counseling if you want it.
I have no advice but I wanted to say I'm so sorry and big hugs to you 💜
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Girl, I’m so sorry that you had to go through this.. I also had a miscarriage before (in 2012) and it’s horrible. I didn’t know about this and I just wanted to say I’m sorry for your loss and I’m here for you!! I know it’s been a while not many of us are on here anymore. Much love to you, hun! ❤️❤️