Assuming pay is the same (and a needed increase form what you have now) what would you prefer- moving to a completely new state 8 hours from everybody you know BUT your husband is home every night.
OR husband travels the US 10 days on 4 days off.
We moved to a new state 13 hours from home and it’s been amazing! We both work from home and get to spend a lot of time with our kids. I can’t imagine my husband being gone for days at a time. It’s hard being away from family but they visit periodically
Hubs already does travel and comes home early on Fridays. So 3 days of him home with us. It sucks a lot cause he’s to damn tired to do anything even when he’s home during the week so either way I don’t win.
I had him working nights when I was pregnant with my youngest all thru her first year. It was so hard. When he WAS awake he wasn’t truly here. Weekends? They lasted 1 day. So yeah I know what it feels like to have an absent husband and it IS hard but at least now the kids aren’t babies..