My parents will pick days and just go grave “visiting” putting out new flowers, removing old ones, they carry the weed whacker… I can’t see wanting to spend a day like this.
My family does. I don’t live near my family but I will go visit if I’m ever back there. My grandma told us to “never waste our money” on bringing flowers so when my uncle visits he adds different little trinket type things around there.
my mom is cremated. She has a shelf with her urn and special items. I decorate it for holidays. Her 1 yr death anniversary is coming up so I plan to buy something to put on her shelf.
Bean·
I don't, but I have issues visiting graves
Bean·
My grandparents were huge on that though
Pork Chop ··
My parents will pick days and just go grave “visiting” putting out new flowers, removing old ones, they carry the weed whacker… I can’t see wanting to spend a day like this.
Bean··
Yeah, no. Me either. Maybe I don't process death the same way they do
Mamabirdddd·
My family does. I don’t live near my family but I will go visit if I’m ever back there. My grandma told us to “never waste our money” on bringing flowers so when my uncle visits he adds different little trinket type things around there.
callatelaboca·
Every holidays, birthdays with all the grandkids and family since I was 16
callatelaboca··
And day of the dead to bring their favorites
Mrs.stkrdknmibalz·
Nope
RayOfMySunShine·
My grandparents have been cremated. So we don’t have a place to visit like that. But I light a candle in the window the day they passed.
Sistersmainpiece·
my mom is cremated. She has a shelf with her urn and special items. I decorate it for holidays. Her 1 yr death anniversary is coming up so I plan to buy something to put on her shelf.
XryztalRoze·
Yes, when I am back in my home state to pay my respects and out of tradition.
scream.queen·
We go every memorial day and plant flowers on multiple different graves.
DragonTrainer1·
No but we haven't lost someone that close to us yet.
M.·
I dont personally I know I should, but I'm too emotional after that it messes me entire mood up. 😥 so I do little visits instead.
But my other family memebers do that, decorates them for the seasons and stuff.
RedCityFreak·
Мама четверых детей
I actually find it morbid but I'll go every now n then to visit my mama and my granny