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Super salty today. Been ttc my 2nd for 4years. And my best friends sister gets pregnant in a month of trying. Normally i…

Super salty today. Been ttc my 2nd for 4years. And my best friends sister gets pregnant in a month of trying. Normally i can just say congrats and hide in my corner. But no this girl lives in a house full of drug addicts, her boyfriend didnt even want kids and has been caught abusing children that arent his bc he didnt even want them near him. He treats her like garbage. None of them work at all or have any kind of savings. And i get im being nasty about this i dont even care. And then find out similar situation my brothers ex wife, nephews mom is pregnant again 2.

Im not close to either of them. But both felt the need to announce to me, then immediately ask if i had baby stuff i could give them from my daughter. I said no bc i gave it all away back in August. And they both get mad at me for not taking future situations into account.. like what?

I dont hide my struggle. Its plastered all over my fb. So i dont even know what made them think it was okay to announce then ask.

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sourpatchkids

Mrs.stkrdknmibalzМама дочки (4 года)

I’d fucking block all of them. The announcement to you is already low considering your struggling to get pregnant but feeling of entitlement to your baby stuff is another big fuck you.

I’m sorry 💔

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no062014

NatashaМама дочки (4 года)

@sourpatchkid it's bc I'm too nice. And I swear I have announce your pregnancy to the infertile lady tattooed on my forehead.

I just don't get it. If they had sent me a text I could have been way more nice. But nope video called me. I'm sure my face was 4 different shades bc even my daughter goes "oh you fucked up". 🤦‍♀️ leave it to my 4yo to make me giggle. She knows better then to swear. But sometimes she just drops the perfect thing at the perfect moment. But still definitely not an oh congrats smile, I had more the you are fucking kidding me face going. And like both of them within a week of each other. Ex sil is much further along, but figured she would wait to say something till she knew the gender for sure.

I also think my life is a joke bc there is no way this many girls are coo coo for cocoa puffs around me. But then again I live in a county where most of the family trees are sticks, and some boys prefer their farm animals. No lie news article about it and everything. So I guess I shouldn't be surprised. And all the normal people know each other and are friends with each other.

And sorry trying to make myself laugh at the same time.

My friend is paying for childcare and uber this weekend so she can take me out. She feels awful and it's not even her responsibility. Makes me love her that much more.

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sourpatchkids

Mrs.stkrdknmibalzМама дочки (4 года)

@no062014, They seriously had to video call you? Idk why but that just made them even more annoying.

I don’t answer FaceTimes/video calls from people I’m not close with. That’s just weird getting a random call like that. Even more so for a fucking pregnancy announcement that you aren’t even close with.

Can I come smack them? 😅

That’s a really good friend you have. You definitely need it after that. Cherish her 💕

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no062014

NatashaМама дочки (4 года)

@sourpatchkid yep 😔. Normally I don't either. Just ex sil bc of having nephew so often.

Sure can.

I try. We have had our falling outs and coming back together. And she has been one to help me shoulder my world

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