Was this doctor really necessary?

I have never experienced such a pushy rude ass dr like tonight. My entire experience was trash. First they put me in the recovery area as the csection moms. Not sure why maybe short staffed because the triage rooms were empty. I felt like that was inappropriate beings they didn’t test me for covid as they put me side by side these other moms with just a curtain to separate us. they even brought in their newborn baby’s. What if I was a symptomatic and had covid and passed that to these moms and baby’s? At one point I had to go into the bathroom to leave another sample (some how someone lost my urine sample the first time) and I had to walk right by the baby that was left out of the curtained area. Anyways the senior resident was so pushy about checking my cervical length with the vaginal ultrasound and checking for dilation after I told her no. She continued to guilt trip me and after I kept saying I’m not interested she went on to tell me that it would be catastrophic to go into preterm labor right now and why she needs to check me. She just became so rude after I told her I was aware of all the risk, I understood her point but I wasn’t concerned. My contractions were not consistent, I knew they were from my UTI, I haven’t had any leaking, bleeding and baby has been active. She was so nasty I just gave in and said go for it but I definitely made sure to speak to her higher up and left my complaint. The nurse said she’s always like that but most people are afraid to complain. She said it’s your body and your right. Exactly! One No should have been enough.