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aleksandravolkova1693
Mrs_Sasha_Nam·Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

Getting divorced with my husband..been a long time since i wanted to put papers through for divorce but something would keep stopping me. Since we got together he had strong trust issues but i thought if we be together for long then he cam see that he can trust me, but instead i been left with no friends, i cant go anywhere with out him i can only by my self to the park or somewhere with kids. I cant dress nice when he is nkt with me as he thinks if i dress nice i am sticking attentions from other mans or if i do nice make up when he is not around. I left any communication woth other people as who ever i had as my friend seemed wrong peole to talk to so i had to pick between him or the person inspoke woth. I only left with one friend that i know for 15 years and she lives far away from me but we speak everyday and i wanted her to be a godmother for my newborn daughter and he told me that he doesn't like her evrn tho she never done anything wring for him tk even say that and again he wants me to choose between her or him and thats the last person i have in my life that i cant sleak to.

So this time i finally told him i want to braie up and get divorce, its emotionally hard for me to accept the fact we wont be together, but i know its for the best. I know after this pass i will feel better and be happier and finally be me again the girl that loves communications, loves traveling and enjoy time with friends. I pray for better 🙏

18.10.2021
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sara-lou86
Sara-Louise·Мама двоих (9 лет, 11 лет)

He will try all the tricks in the book to try & stop you going through with it. I'm so sorry you're going through this but I'm glad your seeing the red flags & getting out now. He is being emotionally abusive by stopping you make your own decisions in what you do, where you go & who you speak to. Isolating you from everyone. And the fact he's raised a hand to you already is a sure thing to get out now. This behaviour won't stop it only escalates.

I don't know the best people to contact hopefully some other ladies may be able to advise. If not Google who can help support you through this because there are people that can help you x

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kelsey234
Kelsey·Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)
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kelsey234
Kelsey·Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)

@aleksandravolkova1693 I dont know enough about divorces to know how you can get out of that one 😩 @vixster may be able to offer you some advice xx

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aleksandravolkova1693
Mrs_Sasha_Nam·Мама двоих (3 года, 8 лет)

@kelsey234 let's see if he sign the paper...I don't think I will ever get married again 😄 this is so hard all this divorce process as most of the times mans don't want to accept the reason why woman wants to leave. Also is cheaper to get marries the get divorce 😁

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kelsey234
Kelsey·Мама двоих (4 года, 6 лет)

@aleksandravolkova1693 I would say aswell that every encounter you have with him now put your phone in your pocket on record. If you can record him being abusive it will help you massively and you can even get the police involved xx

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