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Kevonna Duckett
Kevonna Duckett
Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Mommies please say a prayer for me to have a peace of mind. Im currently out of work because of covid, my husband is in…

Mommies please say a prayer for me to have a peace of mind. Im currently out of work because of covid, my husband is in school to get his cdl license so we only have his disability check coming in which isnt much, and to top it off our landlord wanted to do a walk through which we agreed to. We tell him he has to wear a mask and gets sprayed when he comes in because I'm pregnant and our daughter's immune system is low, he agreed. When he got here he refused and said we're getting evicted and have to move out in 30 days. So now we have to find a place to stay and on top of it all baby boy will be here in 7 weeks and we're not even ready 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I'm swear I'm losing my mind

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jenx

JenX

That was absolutely rotten and horrible of him. Evicting a pregnant woman in a pandemic. :( I will most certainly keep you in my prayers. I hope your husband is close to graduation because I am pretty sure there are tons of jobs right now with good sign on bonuses.

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Yes! I'm thankful he graduates on the 28th of this month and he starts working the day after I believe. And thank you so much for your prayers! I really appreciate it!!

mujerstillregal

So Royal

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

Not sure if you truly are in VA, but eviction protection is in place until 2022, so look into that. You said you've paid your rent on time every month, and keep the property in good condition, so if you really don't want to leave you don't have to. I don't think not permitting him to enter the premises is grounds for eviction. Also, eviction is a process, and you have the option to fight it

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

He did give us a reason. It's because we asked him to spray himself before entering our home. And he's going to the courthouse this week to get the written notice. We're going to go to the courthouse as well to look further into it. My husband and the landlord are supposed to talk face to face today so we'll see how that goes

mujerstillregal

So Royal

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

@momofkem_sam when does your lease expire? If he's evicting I guess it's still in place. I honestly wouldn't worry too much, it sounds like he's just flexing guys landlord power not knowing how limiting it really is. Him not wanting to sanitize is not grounds for eviction, did you guys discuss it in text messages? I wouldn't meet with him, for his court documents he will need to give a reason for eviction, so if it really because he didn't want to sanitize, he's going to sound like a fool. I think, but I'm not sure, that if he has a reason to evict, he has to be open to working on solutions for his reason/problem.

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

unfortunately we didn't get it in a text. He did agree to it over the phone and when he got here he thought we were joking. Buy we pay our rent way before it's due, our home is still in great shape. We've been here for 4 years and never given him any problems so he really don't have any other excuse. Oh and our lease runs out in December I believe...my husband does that stuff

mujerstillregal

So Royal

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

@momofkem_sam I wouldn't meet with him, or do anything until served with eviction papers. I would just look up tenant laws in my state and the power the landlords have. You could go down to the courthouse to get information regarding an eviction, or in this case a threatened eviction, but you can get all that information online, maybe there's even a number to call. This landlord is just a big waste of time

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I certainly will do that. My husband's class doesn't end until 5 so that gives me plenty of time to get some information so he won't have to meet him later

mujerstillregal

So Royal

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

@momofkem_sam I hope you find something to put you at ease ❤️

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Thank you so much! I do too. I can't afford to stress right now

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jenx

JenX

That was absolutely rotten and horrible of him. Evicting a pregnant woman in a pandemic. :( I will most certainly keep you in my prayers. I hope your husband is close to graduation because I am pretty sure there are tons of jobs right now with good sign on bonuses.

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Yes! I'm thankful he graduates on the 28th of this month and he starts working the day after I believe. And thank you so much for your prayers! I really appreciate it!!

icebergahead

Icebergahead

Мама сына (10 лет)

By law he should not be able to evict a pregnant woman but every state is different. All because he was not able to enter? I would get some information because this sounds a bit shatty.

Hopefully he is not able to do this.

Good luck and you are in our prayers❤️

icebergahead

Icebergahead

Мама сына (10 лет)

@momofkem_sam, please check your laws. This seems crazy. I hope you do not leave until you are most certain that this is legal.


Wish you and your family lots of luck.

icebergahead

Icebergahead

Мама сына (10 лет)

@momofkem_sam, This sounds like he needed an excuse to get rid of you all.

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

That's how I honestly feel too. But I will look into this legally. We plan on going to the courthouse on Friday to ask questions.

mimixtmn

Mimi

Sending you prayers mama. Check the landlord tenant laws in your state, does he have a valid reason to evict? I’d try and fight if you can but I know it’s almost impossible in a lot of places. I’d also start looking into what different programs might be in your area to help moms, families or pregnant women facing hardships. Try and keep your head up for your babies this will pass and everything will work itself out💕💕💕💕

icebergahead

Icebergahead

Мама сына (10 лет)

@lexhernandez, exactly.

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

@lexhernandez Thank you so much!

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

my husband and I plan on going to the courthouse Friday because he doesn't have class that day but hopefully they'll explain things to us and help us out.

2sweetie

Melinda Westad

He needs to give you written notice. He can’t just show up and tell you.

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Unfortunately he told us he's going this week since this happened Saturday.

theycallmemommy

Steph

Sending prayers 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

mujerstillregal

So Royal

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

On what grounds are you being evicted? Eviction is a process, the landlord needs to give you a reason. When does your lease expire? He can't just show up and tell you to leave in 30 days, he has to give written notice.

mujerstillregal

So Royal

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

Not sure if you truly are in VA, but eviction protection is in place until 2022, so look into that. You said you've paid your rent on time every month, and keep the property in good condition, so if you really don't want to leave you don't have to. I don't think not permitting him to enter the premises is grounds for eviction. Also, eviction is a process, and you have the option to fight it

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

I certainly will do that. My husband's class doesn't end until 5 so that gives me plenty of time to get some information so he won't have to meet him later

mujerstillregal

So Royal

Мама сына (2 года), беременна (22 нед.)

@momofkem_sam I hope you find something to put you at ease ❤️

momof3ducks

Kevonna Duckett

Мама двоих (3 года, 5 лет), ждёт третьего

Thank you so much! I do too. I can't afford to stress right now

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