That’s what I tried to tell her. To understand that I’m his mother and she’s grandmother. I know they never had a boy and my father has a bad relationship with his own son. So I constantly feel like they try to take my own son away. My mother had before called herself “mom” in front of him. Then she goes “oops I forgot I’m not his mom haha I just watch him so long he’s like my son.”

@yurikomashimaru, oh girl no! Their grandparents know to respect what I say because if not then I won’t go over and they won’t see the kids. It sounds harsh but that is my kids and what I say goes. They had a chance to raise their own kids already now I’m raising mine how I want. And I don’t want some traditions or behaviors to be passed down to my kids. Some things have passed down from generation to generation but it stops at my family because my kids won’t act like certain family members. If they don’t agree then sorry but you won’t see my kids. And their grandmas are great grandparents I’m not saying they aren’t but they just have to respect what we say as parents. I’m sorry you’re dealing with that! Don’t ever feel bad for standing up for yourself or for your kids. Because as parents we are their voice to!

We tried talking about that. And how I was trying to raise my son different. That equaled to her crying because I just told her she was a bad mother and her way of raising wasn’t right. (Though I do not agree with her parenting style, I wasn’t trying to offend her there). I just hate the constant fighting over her right as a grandparent and how she is “just a babysitter”.
Thanks for not making me feel crazy. Because I felt so bad for standing up for what I thought was right!