Obgyn said its better for me to have a c-section this time. I dont know how i feel about that. This will be my first…

@mommyof.1 nice! Boy or girl?

@ksmommyx3 BOY

@mommyof.1 congrats! Boy mom 🥰

@flamingfiremom mine were almost 9 lbs and im tiny. Lol

I have really big babies too (my last was almost 10 lbs pre pregnancy I was 120). I have torn twice and not torn twice but I def wouldn’t go for csection because of that especially so early on in your pregnancy. It’s your body and you know what’s best but I’d be pushing for vaginal and do things to prevent tearing starting now. I’d also like to add my dr has never suggested a csection to me due to my big babies and actually it’s only common for these things in the USA due to medical care being a money making business.

@lexhernandez the thing is that due to having 2 tears i now have hemmorrhoids for life. I suffer so much when going to the bathroom. I take miralax, colace and fiber daily and i still bleed when going number 2

Yeah me too my plancenta was blocking my cervix and it moved up over time and they did tell me a csection was possible if it didn’t move