Obgyn said its better for me to have a c-section this time. I dont know how i feel about that. This will be my first c-section.
@wellabean0413 @mimixtmn @lexhernandez @mujerstillregal @scidg3 @flamingfiremom with my 2 boys i had vaginal and 3rd degree tears. I just have big babies.
@flamingfiremom mine were almost 9 lbs and im tiny. Lol
I have really big babies too (my last was almost 10 lbs pre pregnancy I was 120). I have torn twice and not torn twice but I def wouldn’t go for csection because of that especially so early on in your pregnancy. It’s your body and you know what’s best but I’d be pushing for vaginal and do things to prevent tearing starting now. I’d also like to add my dr has never suggested a csection to me due to my big babies and actually it’s only common for these things in the USA due to medical care being a money making business.
@lexhernandez the thing is that due to having 2 tears i now have hemmorrhoids for life. I suffer so much when going to the bathroom. I take miralax, colace and fiber daily and i still bleed when going number 2
I’d be asking why… with my last baby I had a lot of complications and my placenta was covering the cervix so I was let know early on csection was a possibility but that vaginal wouldn’t be ruled out until 3rd trimester
Yeah me too my plancenta was blocking my cervix and it moved up over time and they did tell me a csection was possible if it didn’t move
Oh no, what happened? Did you have your reveal?
You're only 2 months, things can change as your pregnancy progresses, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
TWW!!
2dpo and on the tww journey. Anyone on the same dpo or close? Haven't decided if I will test at 12dpo or just wait and see if she shows up!!

I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
It'll be ok. How was the gender reveal yesterday?