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Jasmine
Jasmine
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

PSA: If you have to preform a sex act you hate, or promise to preform a sex act you hate for your…

PSA:

If you have to preform a sex act you hate, or promise to preform a sex act you hate for your Spouse/SO/BF/GF/Fiancée/Life partner to get you a food item you want, they ain’t the one.

To add: why don’t we raise children into adults that fully understand consent and don’t settle for having to promise a sex act they hate preforming for their partners to do something/get something for them. Coercion is not consent. Preforming sex acts to receive pretty basic shit from your partner is gross.

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icebergahead

Icebergahead

Мама сына (9 лет)

I have never done this but have read and heard many women doing this for what ever suits their purpose. I have never understood the point of doing such acts but this is just my opinion.

caffeinequeen

M_🖤

Мама двоих (3 года, 6 лет)

I am blocked so I can’t see anything she post, or says. But seriously! For McDonald’s??? 😂 isn’t that just something your husband or SO should get you without you having to do something you don’t like 🤦🏻‍♀️

monstermommax3

Jasmine

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

I’m so confused. She said it’s a joke. But then said she didn’t. And then said she said it because that’s what a “basic single hoe” would say. Idk man. 🤦🏼‍♀️ I’m too tired for the back and forth.

caffeinequeen

M_🖤

Мама двоих (3 года, 6 лет)

lmao. She’s such a child, no one has time for her shit 🙄

kimsnowden8593

Kimberly Snowden

Мама дочки-младенца

Pretty sure you're boring in bed.

kimsnowden8593

Kimberly Snowden

Мама дочки-младенца

@monstermommax3 Yes you are cause if I'm the one that brought it up and agreed then it's consent. Not only are you sensitive and looking too deep into this but you're also dumb.

kimsnowden8593

Kimberly Snowden

Мама дочки-младенца

@monstermommax3 I'm glad you finally came to terms lol

aliciaandmy4

Boss Momma

Многодетная мама (5 детей)

@monstermommax3, omgee fr I get where you’re coming from but it’s her HUSBAND .. and she clearly doesn’t have a problem if she posted it... like ya don’t have to attack this girl on every little thing .. you should be more understanding don’t you have fertility issues as well ?? Idk it’s just crazy all the ganging up tbh 🤷🏻‍♀️

kimsnowden8593

Kimberly Snowden

Мама дочки-младенца

Also you dumb bitch. I blocked you. And this app isn't just for women with children , it's also for women trying as well. There's females with fertility issues too. I blocked a whole Lotta ppl cause at one time I had no peace here. Ppl were literally bothered by everything I say & do lol

kimsnowden8593

Kimberly Snowden

Мама дочки-младенца

Geez lady. You were that bothered over my post so you had to make a post about it ?? Lmao. Ok. Well for one if you're married or in a committed relationship there's nothing wrong with occasionally getting out of your comfort zone to please your spouse. If they're willing to do the same to make you happy, I see no problem. As long as they aren't literally raping you. You can't rape the willing. Secondly, ppl in relationships probably perform sexual favors all the time to get what they want. I was exaggerating a bit in my post to be funny but I didn't know some one would be soooooo hurt over it. MY BAD! You wanna hug?

mybabybear

mybabybear

Мама сына (6 лет)

I agree with this post but my impression was that she was joking around with her husband. Sure she hates anal, I do too, but I’m sure her husband would never make her do something she didn’t want to do. Maybe she felt adventurous that day and decided to just try it one more time. Idk 🤷‍♀️ I hate it too, but I know maybe one day I’d give in to letting him do it just to try it again. Maybe things would be different. The food part was just a plus.

monstermommax3

Jasmine

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

Jokes like this simply perpetuate rape culture. The culture of giving a man what he wants regardless of your wants/needs/likes/dislikes. It’s still gross.

itskarina

🪴📚

Мама дочки (2 года)

What if it’s like household chores or dealing with the baby? Like I’ll sit on your dick if you give the baby a bath tonight?

itskarina

🪴📚

Мама дочки (2 года)

@mellywelly, Yeah and sadly not everyone’s partner does them 😬.

callatelaboca

callatelaboca

Мама троих детей

@plantymom Truth to that.

kimsnowden8593

Kimberly Snowden

Мама дочки-младенца

@jenx I was obviously jk but if that's what I wanted then how is that not valuing myself? If I don't want steak and lobster why get it? Lol normally I get what I " want " whether it's cheap or pricy. Also I'm married so I can fuck & suck for whatever the hell I want and even get what I want without sex 🤣🤣 Yes I'm late but just checking back.

somebodysmama2

Maya 🐝

Мама двоих (2 года, 4 года)

What?! 🌚

jujum

Juju M.

Мама двоих (2 года, 5 лет)

I honestly never understood people who do that.

monstermommax3

Jasmine

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@mellywelly, I’m laughing over here. I worked last night so my overtired brain is getting a kick out of this. She doesn’t seem to get how encouraging doing something you hate in return for basic necessities is inappropriate

callatelaboca

callatelaboca

Мама троих детей

there's no helping that one

monstermommax3

Jasmine

Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого

@mellywelly, nope. Not at all.

Do you really think the way you are raised

Do you really think the way you are raised Has no impact on when and how you decide to have sex? I read a comment on another thread that really rubbed me the wrong way. Something about how teens have sex and there's just no stopping it no matter how you raise them.

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