Is it ever acceptable for a man to tell his wife/ gf that she is not allowed to discuss the fact that he calls her abusive names with her female friend?
Eta He has told her more than once not to discuss him or their personal business.
She can tell whoever she wants obviously. That’s emotionally abusive. .
How about not acceptable to BE ABUSIVE PERIOD SO HE WOULD NOT HAVE TO WORRY aBOUT HER WHEN SHE IS CRYING OUT FOR HELP.
And goes the other way around, women should not be abusive as well.
No.
Hell it's not acceptable to treat your SO that way AT ALL, let alone tell them not to tell anyone. The man is obviously guilty and doesnt want others to know what kind of person he really is.

Discuss.
Dad's FB Video!!
Did anyone see that video a dad posted on his daughters FB page? He saw a post she made where she bashed her parents and cursed them, called them lazy and told them they should pay her for stuff she did around the house... So he called her out on it and put the video on her page!! Sorry if I missed a post already about this already, but I just saw the video and IT WAS AWESOME!!! Hahahhaa!
This chick that works with my boyfriend really confessed her love to my man and then went into tears when he rejected her. (Mind you, he works in a kitchen and tells everyone about me and the fact that I’m pregnant and how excited he is to have a son.) Apparently she’s started to cause him problems at work and getting jealous when he talks other females, me included😂 Like this hoe really tried it😩😂🤪
So, I have looked into and discussed it. Doctor says that sitting her up and supporting her is not an issue as she can hold her head up for more than a few minutes on her own.
If you and your husband are having problems and strongly discussing separation, and he goes to hangout with his friends one night And let's one of his "friends" make out with him while she is drunk, but he is not (she is married and is also having problems in her marriage). And you ask him not to talk to her anymore and to cut all ties with her and he doesn't want to because she's his friend. How pissed would you be??
If he doesn't want her to tell people he's abusive, maybe first, he should not be abusive