After some wine and a few shots of Amsterdam ill be good. Im a happy goofy drunk soo. Maybe that will help my mood.
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Girl I just got pink lemonade Amsterdam. OMG!
@sourpatchkid lol i would but you know men always buy the wrong thing or say they couldn't find it .
@sourpatchkid i have seen someone eles on her have that bottle lol i looks good. 🤣 lastnight i didn't even bother mixing it. I was just drinking out the bottle 🥴.
Love you Retta, I hope things are better after a good night's sleep. 🥰😘
Im looking at him right now. Lol why is he sleeping with my shirt on? I was looking for that shit today. I knew i washed it.
Did he run and grab ya a car present?? 🤣🥰
I think you guys are gonna be ok, just need to try and talk more. Not yell and fuss with each other, actually chat with him.
Try to set aside the first like 20 minutes after the babies fall asleep every night and just talk to your man. You'd be suprised how engaging your mind and keepin those lines open can improve things. Even if it's just a "how was your day" conversation; it's still a check in with each other on anything that happened that day, how you felt before, during and/or after the events you're sharing with each other. It helps you understand each other's mental state a little better and/or how to approach the other person, based on what went on.
He didn't he came with a joke trying to make laugh about the situation. Oooo an he gave me kfc 🙄Im sure tomorrow he will bring something lol it never fails. He is the first man i have ever seen do this.
I think it just takes me time to calm down and move past it. I did try too. Im really not good at that part. I shut down. I will just sit and look at him. I will listen but i won't respond. Thats my fault as long as we been together he excepts me to do it easily but its just hard for me.
We never really talk like he comes home takes kids outside plays with them while i get a moment. Comes back in eat and watch tv until he goes to sleep. While i scroll momlife or play 8ball..so yeahh that talk time is needed. Im working on being more soft and letting him in my thoughts and feelings. Its like he's the woman and im the man when it comes to talks🤣
@albertrettazariah1386 yes girl! My husband use to do things that would make me so mad but he finally learned lol it's a test & this too shall pass. Just don't hold any grudges in your heart because that will eat you alive. Forgive him and TRY to move on. I know it can be hard, idk what happened between you guys but a good talking to might help him understand what he did so he can try to improve. Love you sis! Head up. Praying for you❤️
@heatherlou88 love you too and thank you so much.
Did it help?? I hope so 😘