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My 4 year old came into my room 2 days ago at 1am scared and crying telling me he had a bad dream that I forgot him at…

My 4 year old came into my room 2 days ago at 1am scared and crying telling me he had a bad dream that I forgot him at school 😕 which is weird cos I’m never late to pick him up from Pre-K. Then yesterday he randomly walked up to me while I was making dinner and was crying. But I mean really crying. Like if his dog got ran over or something crying. So I asked what’s wrong and he said “I don’t want you to leave” but I told him I didn’t have to go out today so I wasn’t leaving. Then he said “if you leave you’ll never come back” and I was so confused cos I always come back anytime I have to run an errand. Then he said “if you leave I’ll never see you again cos you’ll walk into the forest and something will bite you and you’ll die”. And I kept reassuring him that mommy always comes back after running errands. I finally got him to calm down letting him know I would never abandon him. But I’m just so confused. He has never EVER been scared or worried about me going to run errands. I’m not sure if he saw something scary on his iPad, or maybe another little kid at school told him his mother left him? Or maybe something happen at school and is being threaten with “if you tell your mom she’ll leave forever”. Have any of your toddlers randomly thought y’all were gonna abandon them?

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jenx

JenX

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Honestly, my kiddo hasn't. It sounds like anxiety though. :(

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?