Oh wow what did you say to your midwife that you had a hard birth so you want a c section?. Well that's really good to be honest will consider that to be fair. Is the scar really bad? X

Oh wow really so you didn't regret it then?. Did it take you long to recover from the c section xx

You can buy things like bouncers , Moses basket second hand , especially as you can easily disinfect them and with the chair the fabric can be put in the wash , start buying things weekly throughout the duration of pregnancy and don’t go overboard you really only need essentials like clothes, feeding supplies etc. If the shops are open primark is pretty good for those newborn grows and clothes especially as they outgrow them so quickly xx

@ezchaz yeah I was thinking of asking people locally for bits and bobs and see what is left for me to get. I've done it all before but things were different back then lol. How was your eldest when you had your next baby? Xx

That's such a relief to hear. I will leave making the decision to have a c section I just panicked lol. Thank you so much. Xx

@proudmommyoflilymae, understandable hun, I was anxious too at first it’s natural 💕xx

@proudmommyoflilymae, Just saw you wrote about water birth, I wanted that with my first but was in such a state I was too afraid to move and get into it 😂🙈so I was laid on the bed. So in my head when I was pregnant with my second I thought there’s NO way I’m laying flat on my back again so I decided to birth on my knees on the floor in a birthing room on a mat thing with my arms/elbows resting on a block beanbag type seat , being in that position really helped with the pain and bring baby down faster. It definitely helped me, along with the gas and air. So thought I’d share that with you xx

I got a bad infection with my c section. Recovery isn’t easy with either.

@mrsmowmow well that's very true I will think about natural then. Don't want to have a c section if I will be ok second time round. Would a water birth be easier?. Xx