Ughh thank you all

I made sure to clean just enough that it wasn't gross/overflowing, but my sleep, shower and eating time took precedence over everything else once the baby was asleep lol. One of the best gifts my sil gave me was a $100 gift certificate to a restaurant. I would order takeout, take a shower, while it was on its way, eat, then sleep on the couch.
Did I look like a slob? Yes.
Were there dishes in the sink? Yes.
Were there always 3 full laundry baskets? No, there were 5.
But I ate, slept, and didn't smell like sweat and spit up. And usually once those things were taken care of, everything else got done eventually.

I took advantage of that 😂😂. I slept with my baby on days that I was over exhausted. The mess will still be there but my sanity is priority lol.

It’s been 15 years still don’t get me time 🤣🤣

Obviously someone who had one perfect baby/child! 🤣 Balance, the mess will still be there, your sanity won't wait around!