Do you think it’s wrong to keep a child from their father if he only comes around when it’s…
Do you think it’s wrong to keep a child from their father if he only comes around when it’s convenient to him? My cousin’s daughters father shows up every couple of months with a toy and sticks around for 1-4 days and disappears again. Should she let him see her whenever he wants or should she just keep him away all together?
Leah·
Idk. I'm so back and forth on that. Kids need stability but you also don't want to keep them away from a parent and them resent you for it when they're older.
Rubiaxo·
Keep him away. The last time my girls saw their dad was august of 2020 and sent money September of that year. He hasn’t asked for them or sent any money since.
My girls don’t ask for him either so I don’t talk about him.
squishymommy1·
Yes it’s wrong. Financial issues between adults and a child seeing their other parent are 2 very separate issues.
RayOfMySunShine·
It is a situational issue. It is ALL about the child’s well being. If it is damaging the child emotionally then it might be time to say no more or step up.
We shouldn’t take our issues out on the kids, ever. We must make the best decision for the sake of our kids. There’s a huge difference in those two situations.
Your Worst Nightmare 😘·
Nope 👎🏼 you don’t get to see a kid you don’t raise or provide for fuk off 💯it just fuks there mind up