The other day i posted about my mortgage. Well luckily my employer has said he can and will offer me a permanent position but in about 3 weeks (awairing confirmation on writong from lady off on maternity).
However, today a colleague came to me and warned me that my head employers has been in the office as a memer of staff has complained about me "slagging off" the establishment, staff and manager's for not givinf me a permanent contract. I was comoletely gobsmacked. The colleague who told it to me said they tried to have my back and tell them maybe i was upset and bitter intially about bot being made permanent... however i feel thats made things worse because it looks like i definitely did it which i absolutely never, ive been praying to become permanent because i can see me staying here forever. I dont know what to do. I want to clear my name but that means dropping my other colleague in it for letting it leave the room
😂 never thought of it that way but its true! 😂 its just peed me off someone has felt the need to go to the top and tell them something thduve either misheard or totally made up, like what's the point what do you get out of it!?
@stacey1991 yeah I'd be fuming too tbh , does this person have a perm position? Xx
@ezchaz I believe it's actually my work partner. He overheard a very public conversation I was having in the corridor with my line manager asking for advice in how to approach the manager with regards to making my contract perm so I can apply for a mortgage and I think hes somehow seen that as me "slagging" the manager off, he's done stuff like this a few times in the last few months
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
What the hell has happened on here? What with all the drama, all I have managed to find is that someone has said somebody is lying about being pregnant wtf ...... What the hell is going on 😐
I’m sorry but I’m still not circumcising my son 🤷🏽♀️ and I don’t care what anyone has to say about it either cause it’s not right to me. That’s their decision to make.
What would you do? - baby shower
SO my mom has been very negative about the baby my entire pregnancy. Especially in the beginning, she said the most HORRIBLE things about me, my DH and my unborn baby. Like that I was making a big mistake, that I was making her 2015 the worst year ever... etc etc. Even when she would do nice things she made me feel like I was a HUGE inconvenience and a burden to her. She told me to definitely NOT expect a shower or anything like that from her. Fine, whatever...
opinions?
I told Jeff I want to leave. He said that he doesn't love me and I feel the same way about him. However when I asked him if I could keep paying my share of the bills while saving enough to leave he said if I'm going to leave I need to go now. This is what he always does. He says he doesn't want me but when I try to leave he manipulates me.
Just don't say anything unless they pull you on it I mean it's not that big of a deal isit? Think about it you have apparently slagged them off for not having a permanent job there , just says how badly you want it 😂xx