My cousin has her baby shower this weekend. This is her second baby. For her first, I made her a “personal bag” that was filled with several different things she could take with her to the hospital like travel shampoo, toothpaste, hair bow, chapstick ect. I also bought a few things for the baby. This time, I’m just stocking her up on her personal bag. Is bad of me to not buy anything for the baby? I know several of her gifts from our aunts and cousins and she’s getting plenty for the baby. I just wanna make sure she gets something for herself too. This bag has a few different things like she mentioned a few weeks ago she needed to buy some comfy panties to wear and she’d like to try nipple shields so I got both of those things. I added some candy for after delivery. I’m still grabbing a couple of things but I’m packing it full of all the things that she can use at the hospital to shower or just clean her face or freshen up or something like that. I’m also adding some extra pads and some self care things for when she gets home like a face mask and stuff. I want to spoil the baby and buy baby stuff of course but I just feel like since every one else is buying for the baby, I’d just like to make sure mama is taken care of.. she’s already stressing about what to put in the hospital bag and such so I just want to lighten her load a little bit. With this, she’ll be able to add whatever clothes she wants and just go.