so the ex SIL has irked my nerve so about a year or two ago when her and the BIL split she gave jerri their old playhouse and swing set cause where she was moving didn't have a backyard well now that she's gettin a new place she wants the stuff back. which whatever i'll buy jerri a better one but don't give people something then year later oh now i have space give it back like really jerri is going to be pissed and upset. let's take from the child here. good example 🙄👏🏻👌🏻🖕🏻
I would have said no, a gift is a gift so technically it’s yours now to do with as you wish
So rude! Legally it’s yours, she abandoned it at your house. Send her a bill for the storage. $40 a month sounds about right.
@momgroupreject, truthfully she can have it back it ain't that great of a swing set or play house that doesn't bother me cause i can get jerri one she'll have more fun with. but the part of her taking from my kids after giving it to them then wanting it back and the part that she doesn't even come to me she goes thru the mil is what irks me
@beautiful_disaster, tell your MIL she can put on her big girl pants and ask for it back herself.. and then you tell her she’s shitty but she has x amount of time to collect it or offer no longer stands. A time that works for YOU, not her
@momgroupreject, and that i'm not helping her load the damn stuff or bringing it to her. her ass can figure it out herself. i'm done with her she has fucked me over so many times and this just tops it off i'm over her and glad the BIL divorced her so i ain't gotta deal with her anymore. but best believe i won't forget she best not ask for a damn thing or expect anything else from me
My petty ass would of said I have it away
@raqueliiosiis, i don't even know where the hell she's moving to. MIL calls me tells me she got a new place with space for that swing set and play house she gave jerri and she wants it back we just buy a new one. which is fine money ain't an issue cause i don't blow my money on myself and watch my kids go without. like i just can't wrap my brain around it like i'm just sittin here going "how can you be so heartless to a kid and take what you gave them"
@beautiful_disaster, fucken bitch. Yes that’s my issue, I think it would of been different if she would of called you and explained the situation but even then that’s still beyond shitty to do to a little kid.
@raqueliiosiis, it'd be different if when she brought it she went about it as "can you keep it until i find a place with space for it" not "where i'm going doesn't have room so y'all can have it" and it'd be different if she asked ME if we still used/wanted it because she has a spot for one now not go to the MIL saying she wants it back now. like she's entitled to it because she gave it to us and because she doesn't make as much money so we should give it back now and buy us a new one but it is what it is she has lost the tiny ounce of respect i had for her.
Charge her a storage fee since that’s what she used it as
What! That’s so rude. I would make sure she knows how incredibly shitty that is.
oh she knows it is that why she didn't come to me like a woman she told the mil so the mil could tell me
@beautiful_disaster, I’m probably giving you bad advice but if I had her number I would tell her that you thought that was pretty crappy because your daughter is going to be really upset. I guess it’s not worth it though. Def “lose” some of the screws 😈.
@itskarina, she ain't worth my words but when she comes gets the shit imma take jerri out there and when jerri completely loses it i hope she sees that she's a selfish piece of shit taking from a 5 year old and imma reassure jerri in front of that fat ugly greedy bitch that momma going to buy her a better one.
I wouldn’t give it back. Just tell her she gave it to Jerri and that’s that. 🤷🏼♀️ that’s really rude of her.
she can have it i don't blow money on myself like her so i'm able to buy my kids nice shit and not take back from others. what piss me off she doesn't come to me about it she tells the mil then mil calls and tells me.
@beautiful_disaster, Now that is even more messed up. Ugh, the nerve of some people 🤦🏼♀️
@chelseaz, karma is a bitch and best believe imma be one to her too cause she's taking from my kids like a decent human being doesn't do that shit
I would have told her to F off honestly 😂 bkz basically she used ur house as storage for her stuff without actually saying that ..
exactly and not to mention she didn't come to me about taking it back she told the MIL and the MIL told me she wanted it back. like really? you can't come to me woman to woman you gotta get the mil to tell me? cause she knows she's being shady as hell and knows i don't play when it comes to the girls you don't take from em like that. but she can have the piece of shit swing set and play house i'll get jerri better ones
That's SUPER rude. It's one thing if it was a loaner condition but I didn't think people actually took shit back like that when they were adults. What does BIL have to say about it
BIL divorced her he doesn't care what she does he wasn't a part of the deal when she gave it to jerri . but it doesn't surprise me coming from her cause all she cares about is herself and likes to play the poor pitiful me shit. not to mention she didn't come to me about it she went to the MIL to tell me not her tell me herself. if she wanted it back she should've went about it like "hey can i bring this to your house until i have space for it" not "jerri can have these because i can't take them"
@beautiful_disaster exactly she should have said it that exact way. I would just give it back but your kiddo something better and then invite her over and rub it in her face. I'm pretty like that when people irritate me.
@massgirl, oh when i get jerri a badass one and blast that shit on fb for her selfish ass to see. add caption "take from my kids momma will pull thru to get better for em"
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I’d personally tell her to fuck off.
Or be petty asf and throw and bunch of paint/mud/dirt/anything on it. Come get it.
AND charge her for storing it.