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Мама четверых детей

My daughter is 4 and is always breaking the rules and not listing and when you tell her something she wants to argue…

My daughter is 4 and is always breaking the rules and not listing and when you tell her something she wants to argue back. Timeout is not working at all I have now been taking toys away for a few days and she just don’t care. Ugh I’m so at a loss

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2sweetie

Melinda WestadМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет)

My daughter was the same way at 4. Literally her favorite thing to do was argue with me. She’d start fights with me so she could argue. Her favorite word was no. I don’t really remember how I got through it but it gets better at 5.

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ashnstahl2007

ashleyМама четверых детей

I hope it gets better I will be making a behavioral chart let’s hope it works

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llcoolkay

Kayla Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)

This is exactly Charley

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mswedes

MishМама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

Try positive reinforcement. If you’re on IG look into @southbaymommyandme. She gives awesome gentle parenting advice that works. She’s a licensed marriage and family therapist

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mswedes

MishМама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

@ashnstahl2007, my son is going through the same thing right now. It’s really hard but we try to stay calm and find out what’s actually causing the behavior. It’s really hard to keep my cool but it helps so much.

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ashnstahl2007

ashleyМама четверых детей

@mswedes,

Yea I’m trying my husband on the other hand he can’t keep his cool he goes to straight yelling and I’m like this is not going to work and it turns into us fighting and him saying well then do it yourself. Just can’t win

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mswedes

MishМама двоих (1 год, 3 года)

@ashnstahl2007, it might help to have him look at some of it with you. Maybe you can come to some agreement. She also talks about how to navigate when you and your parent want to parent differently.

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is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a…

is it wrong to be frustrated that my daughter acts like she can't do certain things with out my help. she plays dumb a lot and I wish I could be like no girl show what you know. she acts like she can't trace or match shapes so shes ask for "mommy finger" to help her so I barely hold her hand and she magically can do it but if I dont hold her hand she just scribbles and acts like she doesnt know the pic is how she traces when I'm "helping her" otherwise it'll just be scribbles all over the page