Am I overreacting for being upset that I didnt get to see my kids open the gifts that I spent 3 hours wrapping? Serious question.
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
M.·
Мама четверых детей
No your not. I'd be upset too love, but just try not to beat yourself up about it and enjoy the rest of Christmas with them. ❤
Jaz·
Мама троих детей
@jenx no, he's just an ass. He claims it happened fast and he didn't get a chance to .. we had so many gifts under that tree he could have stepped away after the first few and got me. But instead he yelled at me for being upset when I tried to handle my emotions privately in the bathroom. I just dnt get it. But now he's asleep and I'm playing with the kids. It's whatever now, but I'm still annoyed lol.
JenX··
Мама дочки (8 лет)
I don't blame you! That is being a serious ass!
Jasmine·
Мама троих детей
I agree with @jenx. All of our presents were open while my toddler was awake by herself. While upsetting we still have the rest of the day. We are making the most of it.
Jaz··
Мама троих детей
Very true. I'm just irritated with him because he knew how excited I was and he had every opportunity to wake me up. He just chose not to.
Jasmine··
Мама троих детей
let it go today, enjoy the holiday and have a calm discussion another day. I agree it’s not okay. He should’ve woken you up. But personally I would wait to handle it.
JenX·
Мама дочки (8 лет)
Honestly? I completely understand that it upset you, it's okay to feel upset, but it is over and done with and I think it's time to take some deep breaths and have fun playing with all those gifts so you don't feel bad about that too. And I mean that totally lovingly and with all respect. I wrapped for.hours too and I imagine how I would've felt if my.kiddo had done that. Holidays are stressful. <3
JenX··
Мама дочки (8 лет)
@jleona oh, gotcha. I didn't understand that part. That was pretty crappy of him. :( Try to enjoy the day with the kiddos...but yeah, that was pretty careless on his part. Did he think he was doing you a favor letting you sleep or is he just that way?
JenX··
Мама дочки (8 лет)
@jleona yeah, for your own sake, so you can salvage the day. <3
Jaz··
Мама троих детей
especially because I wrapped alllllll the gifts by myself. How dare you enjoy their happy faces without ME 😩😡