countrypeaches420
Adrienne Kark
Really feeling like i cant do anything right today. I try so hard but i just cannot get it right. I work on dishes and laundry but my washer wouldnt start today so my husband was fristrated and had to fix that and so while sweeping he got mad that i havent gotten to the litter box yet today and gave me the silent treatment and left for a couple hours. Then i have mom guilt that i havent played with my kids much today other than feed them because ive been cleaning. My anxiety and insecurities are very high today 😞
3.3 года
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He should change the damn litter box! Your pregnant, your not even supposed to be doing it.
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I'm not so upset about the litter box thing. I grew up for the first 16 years of my life with an aggressively abusive and angry father who whenever was mad he would become very violent. Physically, mentally, emotionally, and sexually. My husband really is a kind person but when he's frustrated with me he gets silent and wont speak to me. But whenever I'm around men that are angry it really sets off my flight mode where I pretty much stay 100% silent and hide. So it's not that he's mean to me at all. My anxiety just cannot handle it
He still needs to be more understanding. You're very pregnant. A litter box is the last thing you need to be changing!! Don't let him manipulate you into thinking you are inadequate. & Also don't feel bad for not playing with the kids, we need a break ever so often & the kids can play by themself & be just fine❤️
@lifewithlynnieandwill88 I dont feel manipulated by him. But by my own thoughts and insecurities
@countrypeaches42013 him getting upset with you about the litter box & giving you the silent treatment is not ok though. It's a form of emotional abuse. You need to talk to him about how he made you feel today or it's gonna keep happening..
He should change the damn litter box! Your pregnant, your not even supposed to be doing it.
I came to say this exact thing!!!!