I have 2 beautiful kids, I get no support from their father, been doing it by myself from day1. and now on my third. My boyfriend is a huge support and shows his love for us everyday. Wasn't planning on this 3rd. but I'ma do what I have to do regardless to keep that smile on my babies faces. I see a lot of females up here married or engaged to their kids father of years together and etc. I'm happy for y'all, keep it up. You are blessed. Remember that! things might be good in your marriage or not. Just know that you are blessed to have your kids father still around. My first 2 abandoned them a long time ago. But if you ever see my children they are the happiest kids you will ever know. Because I am the bomb dot com lol and the support my family brings, my babies are blessed.