In need of advice!
I have a 3 year and soon to be 1 year old. I fell pregnant, ( not intentionally, was taking all precautions ). I have yet to tell anybody about it let alone my mom. I don’t even know what to say to her. I’m scared and nervous of the judgement and maybe backlash...So how can I go about this? #myfirstpost
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I hid my second pregnancy from everyone including my mom because she was upset i was pregnant at 17 first. I was 18 when i got pregnant with my second. She found out when I was 34 weeks pregnant and was pissed. She came to terms rather quickly though. I regret not telling her to begin with.
I agree. Just tell her, and if she starts saying anything you don’t want to hear, grab your purse, get in your car, and head home!
Do you live with her? If you don't than just tell her or wait. Either way if you aren't under her roof then it's none of her business.
I do not live with her. I have my own home.
Yes, I’m a “ grown ass woman “ and married but have you ever had judgement, or fear of judgement?
@garay88, that’s what my husband told me. I have an appointment this week for a check up and I want to confirm if they are going to tie my tubes first then I’ll find a way to tell her. It’s just nerve wracking.
Girl, you're a grown ass woman old, enough to be in a relationship and makin babies....just say, "I'm havin a baby". 🤷♀️
Damn well don’t say anything until you feel you’re ready I didn’t tell anyone about my pregnancies with my last two because they weren’t planned and I was living with my in-laws and didn’t want any judgment because I had 4 kids under 5 and under